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How To Create A Successful Parenting Plan

How to Create a Successful Parenting Plan

Your judge will require you to develop a parenting plan before granting a divorce. Conflict between you and the other parent can be minimized and a successful plan can be created with these three simple tips.

3 Suggestions For Dealing With A Rude Or Disrespectful Spouse/Co-Parent

3 Suggestions for Dealing with a Rude or Disrespectful Spouse/Co-Parent

You never imagined that you would have to deal with a rude and impolite spouse. You are going through a divorce and you are disappointed by how your spouse is acting. You ask yourself what you should do to end the bad behavior. Here are 3 suggestions to determine what you should do next.

How To Deal With Your Spouse'S Debt

How to Deal with Your Spouse's Debt

You recently learned that you spouse has a lot more debt than you knew of. Your spouse only told you about the debt because you filed for divorce, and now wants you to take half of it. What can you do?

How To Effectively Prepare For Divorce Court

How to Effectively Prepare for Divorce Court

You want to handle your divorce on your own but you are uncertain about what to expect in court. Here are three things you should know will be expected of you by the judge handling your divorce.

How To Decide When To Say “No” To Your Friends And Family

How to Decide When to Say “No” to Your Friends and Family

Are you overwhelmed? Are your family and friends still asking you to help them when you have absolutely nothing left to give? Here are some useful tips to to reduce your stress and decide whether to help a friend or family member when you are feeling burnt out or overwhelmed.

Top Secrets To Selling A Home During Divorce

Top Secrets to Selling a Home During Divorce

Are you going through a divorce and want to get out of your home mortgage? Do you want to sell your home? Are you worried about getting enough money out of the sale of your home? We have asked a top realtor the most frequently asked questions from clients going through a divorce and complied the answers here to help you decide what the best steps for you to get the most money out of the sale of your home.

How To Propel Your Career And Lower Alimony

How to Propel Your Career and Lower Alimony

Will I have to pay alimony? How long will I have to pay alimony? These are top questions most divorcing people want to know. The answer depends on how much your spouse makes and whether they are earning the most money based on their experience and education. Understand how a vocational expert can help increase your spouse's income and lower your alimony.

We interview an expert, Sarah Holmes of Vocational Professionals, to address some of your concerns about your spouse and their employment opportunities. You can learn more about Sarah Holmes at www.vocpros.com.

Common Questions On Finances During Divorce

Common Questions on Finances During Divorce

Are you worrying, “Can afford to divorce?” The answer simply is maybe. Its time to talk about creating a new budget, looking at debts and understanding your retirement future. We have some very helpful answers to the most Frequently Asked Questions – all answered by Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Debra Melvin of Investors Advisory Group.

You can learn more about Debra Melvin at InvestorsAdvisoryGroup.com.

How To Avoid Being Charged With A Crime During Divorce

How to Avoid being Charged with a Crime During Divorce

Are you and your spouse constantly fighting? Do you or your spouse threaten to call the police? It is always better to avoid conflict with your spouse and not involve the police when you are going through a divorce. But, if you are being investigated by the police, here are some things that you need to know to avoid an injunction or being charged with a crime.

How To Prepare For A Home Appraisal

How to Prepare for a Home Appraisal

Are you worried about what is going to happen to your home in your divorce? Do you want to keep the home if you can afford it? Or, are you hoping to get a large pay out from your spouse who wants to keep your home? For many people, the value given by a home appraiser has significant impact on the outcome of your divorce. Discover what the process entails and how to prepare for it in my interview with home appraiser Rick Vozar of Vozar Service Appraisals, Inc.

How To Effectively Serve Divorce Paperwork

How to Effectively Serve Divorce Paperwork

Unfortunately, it isn't enough to file the divorce paperwork to start the divorce process. The court can’t make decisions or rulings unless it has jurisdiction over you and your spouse. The court gains jurisdiction over you when you meet residency requirements and file. The court achieves jurisdiction over your spouse when he receives official and verifiable notice of the divorce so he has an opportunity to object to what you’re asking for. Here is firsthand information about the process server does and how they can help you. I interviewed Mark of Due Process Service, LLC.

Top Tips To Effectively Survive Divorce

Top Tips to Effectively Survive Divorce

You get to choose the life that you want to live. Live right by making the right choices that are aligned with your personal values and goals.

What To Consider When Investing?

What to Consider When Investing?

Investing in your future is important to your success. There is both financial investing and personal investment with the latter dealing with how you feel emotionally and physically. When first starting out it is important to have the proper assistance, just like with divorce, to help guide you through the unfamiliar terrain.

Insurance Considerations During A Divorce

Insurance Considerations During a Divorce

Everyone going through a divorce wants to have that financial security for their loved ones. Look towards the future with your health being one of the most important assets that you have, and health insurance as a close second.

What Is Disability Insurance In Divorce?

What is Disability Insurance in Divorce?

Financial security for the people they care about is something that a lot of people consider when going through a divorce. With this in mind, it is important to be aware of your opinions for insurance and what the best option for you could be.

Relocating With Children After Divorce

Relocating With Children After Divorce

In Wisconsin a custodial parent Should Not move a child away from the non-custodial parent without a court order. The law in Wisconsin requires you to make a formal motion when moving more than 100 miles away, or if moving across state lines.

The Macaron With Madame Macaron Mke

The Macaron with Madame Macaron MKE

When it comes to macarons, Madame Macaron says, “Patience is a virtue.” We only need three ingredients to make these delicious cookies, but the level of precision involved is similar to doing a science experiment.

Making An Impact In Milwaukee

Making an Impact in Milwaukee

Impact is celebrating 60 years of helping Milwaukee county and 9 other surrounding counties. They started as a resource for those suffering from alcoholism and drug dependence and expanded to include information on housing assistance, food insecurity, healthcare, utility assistance, disability information, trauma and mental health issues.

Do Both Parties Have To Agree To A Divorce?

Do Both Parties Have To Agree To A Divorce?

Wisconsin is a single party, no fault state. So long as one party testifies that the marriage is irrevocably broken, that is all the courts need to move forward. If a party doesn’t participate in the process of the divorce, the divorce can become a default divorce.

Documents Needed For Divorce

Documents Needed For Divorce

If you are going to represent yourself in your divorce these are the documents you will need to complete. You will need to file a summons, a petition, a confidential petition addendum. If minor children are involved, the court will want you to file a child support application.

Best Interest Of The Child

Best Interest Of The Child

Every part of the court decision must be made to best promote or preserve the best interest of the child. The court wants stability for kids. “No roller coasters,” says Attorney Kinsler.

How To Prove You Are A Fit Parent In Court

How to Prove You Are a Fit Parent in Court

When a party's ability to parent is questioned, the Wisconsin Court will look to ensure that the children's safety is maintained. Issues that the court views as problematic include substance abuse, mental health issues, and neglect.

Leadership, Success And Core Values

Leadership, Success and Core Values

Hear from the leaders at Sterling Lawyers on what makes a great leader, what success looks like for the firm, and what are the values that we embrace at the firm. A team that works together is the cornerstone of everything we do at Sterling. To accomplish this we must all strive toward the same goals and have the same values.

Benefits Of Creativity And Art

Benefits of Creativity and Art

In addition to stress relief and promoting problem solving there are many benefits to creativity. We talk with Teresa Spenser, the owner of Soul Fire art studio, and tour the shop in Delafield, WI. She shares with us her joy watching adults and children exercise their own creativity.

Meet Attorney Erin Boyd

Meet Attorney Erin Boyd

Attorney Erin Boyd of Sterling Lawyers is hard working and truly cares about helping her clients. It’s not just the legal issues that we have to focus on. It’s also about helping clients get through the process and see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Is Wisconsin Considered A Pro Mother State?

Is Wisconsin Considered a Pro Mother State?

Is Wisconsin considered a “mother state” when making decisions regarding custody and placement? Wisconsin courts are explicitly forbidden in using gender to make custody and placement decisions. The courts look at what is in the best interest of the child.

Strong Families Build A Strong Society

Strong Families Build A Strong Society

We believe that the cornerstone of a strong community is a healthy and strong family structure. This is why at Sterling Lawyers we produce stories that help promote strong belief systems, good communication, and healthy relationships. Learn more about what we stand for and why we believe as we do.

How Is Alimony Awarded In Wisconsin?

How is Alimony Awarded In Wisconsin?

In Wisconsin Alimony or Spousal Maintenance is not guaranteed. The courts have “broad discretion.” Learn from Attorney Austin Miller of Sterling Lawyers what factors the court considers and why it’s important that your attorney knows how the court or judges in your county look at alimony.

Importance Of Servant Leadership In Family Law

Importance of Servant Leadership in Family Law

Servant Leadership in family law can lead to attorneys and support staff being better positioned and motivated to serve the needs of their clients. In this article and video, Anthony Karls, president of Sterling Lawyers describes how the concepts of “Truth and Love” create our version of servant leadership and why it is important that we influence people to become servant leaders. Without servant leadership, we don’t become a client-centered law firm.

Does 50/50 Custody Pay Child Support?

Does 50/50 Custody Pay Child Support?

In Wisconsin, child support is determined by placement and not custody. Child support is calculated from the amount of overnights a parent has with their children. Attorney Austin Miller of Sterling Lawyers explains how people often confuse custody and placement and why the better place to start when calculating child support is to first determine placement.

Meet Attorney Ellen Rhodeman

Meet Attorney Ellen Rhodeman

Attorney Ellen Rhodeman of Sterling Lawyers believes it is important for a family law attorney to be mild mannered, level headed, and calm. She believes that just as stress is infectious, so is being calm and it is important that she brings this emotional balance to the emotional charged lives of her clients as they navigate divorce. She wants to help her clients get through this transition, not just legally, but emotionally, as well.

Finding Positive Parenting Solutions

Finding Positive Parenting Solutions

What are Positive Parenting Solutions? Parenting Place’s Triple P Program is an evidenced based trauma informed program that focuses on developing Positive Parenting Solutions. There are different programs structured for the specific needs of the parents and the children.

Life During Quarantine As We Experienced It

Life During Quarantine As We Experienced It

We all have been going through this coronavirus Safer At Home lockdown together. In this fun video, Anthony Karls gets on Zoom and chats with some of our attorneys and staff to learn how they have been surviving the quarantine while working from home and staying safe.

How To Plan For Retirement & Divorce

How to Plan for Retirement & Divorce

The highest rate of divorce is when people are 45 years old or more. With that in mind, it is important to know where someone stand's financially as they get closer into retirement years.

How To Budget After Divorce

How to Budget After Divorce

More often than not, the standard of living of both spouses drops in the first few years after divorce. This is because the now two separated people are not on the same income and pool of assets that they had been with during the marriage.

How Does Life Insurance Impact Divorce?

How Does Life Insurance Impact Divorce?

Insurance is an important piece of finance as it safeguards your family from the unforeseeable. After a divorce, it's important to take a look at your options as the family dynamic has changed and new options may be available to you.

Iep Meetings And Guardian Ad Litem

IEP Meetings and Guardian Ad Litem

A lot of situations that involve a guardian ad litem would be where parents are having problems helping their kids with discipline at school or behavior at school, or falling behind academically. The parents might get frustrated because they don’t know what to expect from the school or what to do with their child.

Achieving Goals With The Help Of A Coach

Achieving Goals With the Help of a Coach

Life is full of surprises and it can be challenging after dealing with a hurtle like divorce, but there are professionals who will help guide people to achieve their goals in a timely manner.

Handling The Emotional Turmoil Of Divorce

Handling the Emotional Turmoil of Divorce

Handling the Emotional Turmoil of Divorce Latrice Knighton is an award-winning divorce attorney, life coach, and speaker. She solves problems using her experience and legal knowledge to offer practical advice.While going through divorce it may seem like you're going...

The Changing Practice Of Home Appraisal

The Changing Practice of Home Appraisal

The process of diving property and debt during/after the divorce is called property division. When it comes to homes, whether you want your house to appraise above or below the fair market rate depends on you wanting to keep it or be bought out. 

Maintaining Communication During Divorce

Maintaining Communication During Divorce

Children may make the idea of “no contact” a little tricky after your divorce. If you have kids, it's important to put your differences aside for the betterment of the child's life.

Meet Css Training Mgr Mary Sankey

Meet CSS Training MGR Mary Sankey

Mary joined Sterling Lawyers in March of 2018. Under Mary's mentoring, the Client Solutions Team learns to validate prospective and current clients through empathetic listening.

The Benefits Of Day Camps For Kids

The Benefits of Day Camps for Kids

Anthony Karls, the host of Flourishing Families, sits down with Pat Quin of Cedar Springs Outdoor Adventure Day Camp and the conversation quickly turns to the benefits of a child attending day camp. They discuss how day camps provide the child an opportunity to develop the foundations of their character.

Meet Css Mgr Kelley Shaw

Meet CSS MGR Kelley Shaw

Client Solutions Team manager Kelley Shaw has been with Sterling Lawyers since 2015. “Every interaction with every client and every potential client, is an opportunity for us to build relationships across our community,” Kelley says, in this interview.

The Stages Of Financial Independence

The Stages of Financial Independence

We recently sat down with George Schmidley of Affiliated Financial Advisors for this video about getting started towards financial independence and followed up with questions where we ask him about the stages of financial independence and if this were a goal or a process.

The Power Of Validating Others

The Power of Validating Others

We all seek validation and likely have a basic understanding of the benefit of validating others. However, this simple skill is often the hardest interpersonal skill to understand and master.

Do I Have To Pay Alimony If My Ex Is Living With Someone?

Do I Have to Pay Alimony if My Ex is Living With Someone?

Many factors affect alimony. A spouse does not have to marry someone legally in order to be eligible for change in spousal support. Two people can be in a de-facto married relationship where they are not married and they act as a married couple by living together and paying everyday bills, etc.

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