I Still Want My Ex Back but Why?

Feeling a whirlwind set of emotions is normal so do not worry about it.There will be days when you would feel relief and happiness knowing that you have finally moved on from the failed relationship. There will also be moments when you start to question why the marriage has come to and end. You may start to realize that you still want to get back with your ex-husband or ex-wife.

Divorce can turn your life upside down. Below are some of the things that you can do in cases where you want to get back with your former spouse:

Be Sure About It

When you undergo the process of divorce, all your thoughts and feelings are clouded. Most of the time, you are confused about what is happening in your life. There are fears and uncertainties. You may feel afraid of facing the future all by yourself which is why you start to think of wanting your ex back. This is the reason why you need to assess your feelings towards your ex. Do not make rush decisions. Take all the time you need to figure things out. It may also help to get in touch with your friends, family and loved ones so that they may guide you in making the decision.

Start Writing On A Journal

To help you in deciding whether it is a good idea or bad one to get back with your ex, you should start owning a journal. Write everything that you feel for a particular moment. By doing such, you will be able to keep track of how your emotions fluctuate. Also, start asking yourself about several questions and try to write answers in your journal. Recent study shows that journaling is an effective way of coping up with stress and depression.

Take Care Of The Legal Matters

Despite the emotional turmoil going on with your life, it is important that you keep yourself updated with the legal matters involving your case. If a divorce complaint has already been filed in court, make sure that you constantly communicate with your lawyer in order to guarantee that everything is well taken cared of. In case an action has not yet been instituted in court, call your local family law attorneys if you are still unsure of filing the initiatory pleading for divorce.

References: Why Do I Keep Thinking About My Ex?

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