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How to File for Custody in Illinois

To file for custody in Illinois, you file a Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities in the county where your child lives, then serve the other parent. 750 ILCS 5/601.2[1] governs how the case starts, and from there the court sets a schedule for parenting time, decision-making, and a parenting plan. If you are already divorcing, custody is decided inside that case rather than in a separate filing.

One thing to know up front: Illinois no longer uses the word “custody.” Since 2016, the law calls it the allocation of parental responsibilities, split into significant decision-making and parenting time. People still search for “custody,” so this page uses both, but the petition you actually file and the order you receive use the parental responsibilities language.

What “Custody” Means in Illinois Now

Illinois replaced the single idea of custody with two separate pieces, and your petition addresses both. Understanding the split matters, because you can be allocated one without the other. For the full picture of how these cases work, start with our overview of child custody in Illinois.

Significant decision-making is the authority to make major decisions about your child's education, health, religion, and extracurricular activities, and it is governed by 750 ILCS 5/602.5[2]. Parenting time is the schedule of when the child is in each parent's care, governed by 750 ILCS 5/602.7[3]. A parent can share decision-making while the parenting time split is uneven, or the reverse. Your filing tells the court what you are asking for on each.

Who Can File and Where

How you file depends on your situation, but for most parents it comes down to one of two paths.

  • Married or divorcing parents. Parental responsibilities are decided as part of the divorce or legal separation case, not in a separate petition.
  • Unmarried parents. You file a standalone Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities in the county where the child resides.
  • Non-parents. A non-parent can petition only in limited circumstances, generally when the child is not in the physical custody of a parent.

For unmarried parents, there is often a step that comes first. If legal parentage has not been established, particularly for a father, that has to be resolved before or alongside the custody case, because parentage is what gives you standing to ask for parenting time at all. Our page on establishing paternity in Illinois explains how that works and why it comes first.

How to File, Step by Step

The mechanics are consistent across Illinois counties, though local forms and fees vary. The core sequence looks like this.

  1. Prepare the petition. Complete a Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities identifying the child, both parents, and what you are asking the court to order.
  2. File with the required attachments. File in the child's home county along with a UCCJEA affidavit, which establishes the court's jurisdiction over the child, and a summons.
  3. Serve the other parent. The other parent must be formally served with the summons and a copy of the petition. The law requires notice at least 30 days before any hearing on the petition.
  4. File your proposed parenting plan. Each parent files a proposed parenting plan within 120 days, or the parents file one agreed plan together.
  5. Attend mediation if required. Most counties require parents who disagree on parenting issues to attempt mediation before a contested hearing.
  6. Resolve by agreement or hearing. If you reach an agreement, the court can enter it as an allocation judgment. If not, the judge decides after a hearing.

The Parenting Plan and the 120-Day Deadline

The parenting plan is the heart of a custody case, and Illinois puts a clock on it. 750 ILCS 5/602.10[4] requires each parent to file a proposed parenting plan within 120 days of filing the petition. If both parents agree, they file a single joint plan instead.

A parenting plan spells out the details the court needs: how significant decisions will be made, the parenting time schedule including holidays and school breaks, how the child will be exchanged, and how the parents will communicate. A clear, workable plan is what the whole case builds toward, so it is worth getting right rather than filing something rushed. Sterling provides a parenting plan template for Illinois that shows what a complete plan covers.

How the Court Decides: The Best Interest Standard

Whether the court is approving your agreement or deciding a contested case, the standard is the same: the best interests of the child. Both parents start out presumed fit.

Under the parenting time factors, the court weighs things like the child's needs, each parent's involvement in caretaking over the prior 24 months, the child's adjustment to home and school, each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent, and any history of violence. The court will not restrict a parent's time unless it finds that time would seriously endanger the child. This is why the petition and parenting plan should be built around the child's actual routine and needs, not around grievances with the other parent.

Getting a Temporary Order While the Case Is Pending

A custody case takes time, and you do not have to wait for the final judgment to have a schedule in place. Either parent can ask the court for a temporary order early in the case.

A temporary order can set parenting time, decision-making, and support while the case proceeds, and it often becomes the pattern the final order follows, so it is worth taking seriously from the start. Filing a petition does not stop you from requesting temporary relief at the same time.

How Sterling Lawyers Handles Custody Filings

Sterling Lawyers handles family law exclusively across Illinois, and allocation cases are a core part of that work. We know how these petitions are handled in Cook, DuPage, Kane, Will, Lake, and McHenry County courts, and how local practice on forms, mediation, and scheduling actually plays out.

We start by getting the filing right: the correct petition, the jurisdictional attachments, proper service, and a parenting plan built around your child's real routine rather than a template. If parentage needs to be established first, we handle that as part of the plan. If a temporary schedule is needed, we ask for it early.

Instead of billing by the hour as the case unfolds, we set a fixed fee at the start. You know the full cost before you hire us, and you can call with questions without watching a clock. For a case about your children, that predictability lets you focus on what matters instead of the meter.

Mistakes That Slow a Custody Case Down

Most delays in a custody filing are avoidable. Knowing the common ones helps you start clean.

Filing in the Wrong County

A petition generally belongs in the county where the child resides. Filing in the wrong place, or without the UCCJEA affidavit that establishes jurisdiction, can stall the case before it starts.

Skipping the Parentage Step

An unmarried parent who has not established legal parentage may lack standing to seek parenting time. Sorting this out first, rather than mid-case, keeps things moving.

Missing the Parenting Plan Deadline

The 120-day window for a proposed parenting plan is a real deadline. Letting it slide can frustrate the judge and delay your order.

Building the Case Around Conflict

Courts decide on the child's best interests, not on which parent is angrier. A petition focused on the child's needs lands far better than one focused on the other parent's faults.

Are you ready to move forward? Call (312) 757-8082 to schedule a strategy session with one of our attorneys.

What to Do Next

If you are ready to file for custody, the useful first step is figuring out which path applies to you, whether parentage needs to be established, and what a parenting plan built around your child would actually look like. Getting the filing right the first time saves months. Sterling Lawyers can walk you through your situation and give you a clear, fixed-fee picture before you decide anything.

Related Legal Issues

A custody filing usually runs alongside child support in Illinois, which is calculated from both parents' incomes and the parenting time each parent is allocated.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does Illinois still call it custody?

Not officially. Since 2016, Illinois uses the allocation of parental responsibilities, made up of significant decision-making and parenting time. Most people still say custody, and the concepts overlap, but your petition and final order use the parental responsibilities language.

Where do I file for custody in Illinois?

You file a Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities in the county where your child resides. If you are getting divorced, the issue is handled within your divorce case instead of a separate filing.

Do I have to be divorced to file for custody?

No. Unmarried parents file a standalone petition. Married parents who are divorcing have parental responsibilities decided as part of the divorce, and parents who were never married may need to establish legal parentage first.

How long do I have to file a parenting plan?

Each parent must file a proposed parenting plan within 120 days of filing the petition, unless the parents agree on a single joint plan. It sets out decision-making, the parenting time schedule, and how the parents will handle exchanges and communication.

Can I get a custody order in place quickly while the case is pending?

Yes. Either parent can request a temporary order for parenting time, decision-making, and support early in the case, so you are not left without a schedule while the case works through the court.

Will the court favor the mother?

No. Illinois law presumes both parents are fit and decides parental responsibilities on the child's best interests, not the parent's gender. What matters is each parent's involvement, stability, and ability to meet the child's needs.

How much does it cost to file for custody at Sterling Lawyers?

Sterling uses fixed-fee pricing for family law matters in Illinois, so your total cost is set before work begins. The fee depends on whether your case is agreed or contested and whether parentage must be established. We tie it to your specific situation during your consultation so there are no surprise bills.

Sources

[1] 750 ILCS 5/601.2 – Jurisdiction; Commencement of Proceeding | https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/fulltext.asp?DocName=075000050K601.2

[2] 750 ILCS 5/602.5 – Allocation of Parental Responsibilities: Decision-Making | https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/fulltext.asp?DocName=075000050K602.5

[3] 750 ILCS 5/602.7 – Allocation of Parental Responsibilities: Parenting Time | https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/fulltext.asp?DocName=075000050K602.7

[4] 750 ILCS 5/602.10 – Parenting Plan | https://www.ilga.gov/legislation/ilcs/fulltext.asp?DocName=075000050K602.10

 





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